I have a few close friends that have suffered a similar childhood (or lack there of). Each one has handled it differently. There are some that are completely closed off. You would never know they had any hardships. They do deal with it, but they do so privately. Some try to pretend like it never happened. They suppress everything. And some are loud, like me. I was talking to one of my friends and she said “I live out loud now because I was forced to be silent for so long.” For me, living out loud... writing about it constantly & painting about it helps me. Others heal in ways that are not visible. This is just a reminder that everyone has gone through hardships. Even the person that seems like they have everything together may be dealing with something tragic in their past or present. Having this understanding, having this EMPATHY is crucial.
(07.22.19)
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Color is a focus of my work for a variety of reasons, but the main reason is for healing. My father was an angry and violent man. He took out his rage on his family daily and I took it upon myself to protect my mother and brother from him by becoming the focus of his fury. We didn’t have much, but my mother filled our home with colorful art to bring radiance into an otherwise dark place. I followed in her footsteps and escaped into vibrant art of all shapes and forms. Getting into the flow of mindful art creation has been the single most important part of my healing. I hope to share the happiness that colorful art brings me with others, especially children.